Humans as Particles

Positive people are attracted to positive people just as negative people are attracted to negative people. Electric force – as the fundamental physical law – is not the primary agent here; especially as this force is attractive to opposite “charged” particles. It must be a mental-construct-level, sociocultural and neurobiological force. And so a conglomerate force of forces.

How can we find equilibrium? Should we? Is it futile? Why?